An Emergency Medical Technician is not concerned about a patient crying in pain when he’s cutting you open to save your life, especially when he is going in to remove the root cause. A patient is given immediate emergency medical attention. He is then taken to a hospital to recover and enjoy a healthy life.
In the same way, a true lover of God is not concerned to hurt your feelings when warning you about the most lethal heart condition known to man called sin. They are trying to save your soul from the eternal pits of hell. Jesus is the healer of the heart and in him you find eternal life.